DISQUS

entipy · 7 years ago

I love porn.
Beryl · 7 years ago

Toronto? Would have expected that out of an American newspaper.

[Quote] couples whose marriages have been shaken by the husband's secret — and, inevitably, discovered — use of pornography. [Quote]

There's the problem right there. Why is it secret? Is he embarrassed? Does she feel threatened? It's probably the discovery of an unexpected "secret" that shakes the marriage more than the porn itself.
Zhaneel · 7 years ago

I think that porn is fine, in moderation.

I had one realtionship where it was a problem. Becuase he left it laying aorund and was constantly watching it. So I was not happy becuase I felt like I was being ignored in favor of porn.

But when I'm not around and the guy is horny, sure. Healthy even. Keeps him in practice.

Zhaneel
Lupus · 7 years ago

Again, the key to everything is moderation.

But if it is a problem - it is a symptom of something underlying. Giving up porn would mean nothing without dealing with that underlying problem.
Carlo Zottmann · 7 years ago

Exactly.
entipy · 7 years ago

[Quote] it is a symptom of something underlying [Quote]

Yup....